December 31, 2015 Am I a Traitor to my BFF?? Hi Nikki! I need your help. I really like to hang out with this group of girls. My best friend says that she doesn’t like them because they’re mean to her. However, they’re nice to her and I’ve never seen them be mean. I don’t know what to believe! Am I insulting my friend in any way by hanging out with them? How can I convince my friend that they are actually really nice? From, Torn-In-Two Hi Torn-in-Two! Yikes, that sounds awful. (Can you imagine if you were actually torn in two? In the olden days, it was an actual punishment for the worst criminals. Ewww…but let’s focus on your actual problem!!) I wonder if your BFF might be feeling a little insecure that she’s going to lose you. If she doesn’t get along with these girls but you want to hang out with them, she might worry she’s not going to get as much time with you as she’d like to have (obviously, since you’re so awesome). I’d probably be jealous if Chloe and Zoey started hanging out with the CCPs. If this is the case, then no, I don’t think it’s a betrayal for you to hang out with some new friends. It’s okay to have more than one group of friends. BUT I also think it would be good to make sure your BFF knows she’s still your BFF, and that the second F in BFF stands for FOREVER. Plan a sleepover, send her some reassuring texts, bring her a favorite candy bar. Come right out and tell her how special she is to you and let her know that you might have some new friends, but she’ll always be your forever BF. On the other hand, I wonder what your BFF means when she says they were “really mean to her.” That could mean a lot of things. It could be MacKenzie-level mean, where they stole from her or blackmailed her or stuffed her into a locker. If it’s that extreme…well, think about how you’d feel if you were your friend. If your BFF started hanging out with some girls who had been truly awful to you, how would you feel? I’d sit down with your BFF, make sure she knows how much you can’t live without her, and then ask her to tell you more about what happened with these girls. If she just doesn’t get along with them, be sure she knows you’re not giving up on your friendship with her—you’re just expanding your world. But if something MacKenzie-level bad went down, give your BFF the loyalty you’d want from her. What do you guys think? Is it a betrayal of your BFF to hang with girls she doesn’t like?
dork diaries fan says January 12, 2016 at 12:34 am Dear Nikki, I have a problem with my friend. She is really nice and all but whenever i talk to other people she always interupts me and then they listen to her and walk somewhere farther than i am with my friend. I really want you to reply to my problem, by the way love your book series keep on the good work.
Flash fan says January 11, 2016 at 11:37 pm Hi nikki i need advice theres this guy i like hes like my bestfriend but my friend athalia likes him too. One day when we were on the bus he called me athalia and today i asked him why he called me athalia and he didnt say nothing . Nikki help WHAT do i do – so confused
Worried DORKI Reader says January 11, 2016 at 11:30 pm Dear Nikki I’m SUPER WORRIED because………, wait, let me begin from the begin from the beginning. A few weeks ago I went on a trip where I got Dork Diaries #8,9 and 10 because I already have and read Dork Diaries #1,2,3,3 and a half,4,5,6,6 and a half, and 7. I already read Dork Dairies 8 and 9 last week, but when I opened book #10 I saw the name of other book. Suddenly I got SUPER WORRIED!!!,I thought that maybe this book may be the last book of the series!NOOOOOOOOOO(me screaming) I just want,……no, NEED to know if Dork Diaries #10 is the last one ASAP!!! If not I may,….NO, AM going to DIE!!!!! Pleas answer fast! Waiting for your answer⏰ Worried DORKI Reader❤️
Stuck in the middle girl says January 11, 2016 at 10:56 pm Hi Nikki, I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP!!!!! Ok, so I have this friend who thinks that she is my bff since like, forever (let’s call her friend no 1). I don’t know where she got that idea from since she can be kind of annoying and I even have a flashback of me crying when I would go to her house every week. But thats barely the problem, I have another friend who is my real BFF friend no 2) but those two friends don’t even get along. My real BFF is kind of clingy though and she is kind of a drama queen, plus I am in the same class as both of them this year and I’m scared that I am gonna have to choose between the two. I don’t want to let go of friend no 1 cause she feels like a true bff deep down inside. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????? Stuck in the middle girl
Spirit says January 11, 2016 at 10:42 pm Dear Nikki, I am too attached to the internet but here’s the thing I cannot focus on homework or go to bed without taking 5 hours of my time on the internet.What do I do?
cuteypie says January 11, 2016 at 10:30 pm My bff told a boy I don’t like that I like him but I already have a bf and if he hears about this he is going to be mad Nikki please help me
boy trouble says January 11, 2016 at 10:16 pm Hey Nikki so there are two boy in my class and I like them both but they both asked me out and now I don’t know who to say yes to
Lonely Snowball says January 11, 2016 at 9:24 pm Dear Nikki, PLEASEEEE answer!! 🙂 🙂 🙂 I am having some trouble in Middle School because I have no friends!!! 🙁 (Okay, fine! I have one friend but she’s kind of mean to me and her friends are BULLIES to me!!! They stole my lunch today and I can’t stand my school anymore!!!!) I’m such a loner! 🙁 😥 😥 😥 Also, sorry if this sounds dramatic but I have NO true friends and everyone knows you can’t survive Middle school without good friends! Please help me Nikki!!! -Love, Lonely Snowball P.S You GO DORKY GIRLFRIEND!!! 😉 (Sayin’ it with love :3 )
HelpMeRightNow!!!!!!!! says January 11, 2016 at 9:10 pm Dear Nikki, There is a boy, who is my “boyfriend’ and we only have been “dating” for 1 week and 3 days. We agreed to date but not go on any dates. I am just fine with it because he used to be my bff and because I really like him, but I don’t want to like him. My bff put me in a thing called a shame hole just because, I like him. But, my boyfriend changed his mind. He wants to go on dates now!!!!!!!! 🙁 🙂 ! I DO NOT WANT TO! What should I do???????? Please answer me ASAP! I even put this situation in a prayer request! Plus my one bff is moving and she is my love psychologist. So please help! I am very desperate for answers! Even from other people that read this! Yours Sincerely, HelpMeRightNow!!!!!!!!
Confused dork says January 11, 2016 at 9:05 pm Dear Nikki, I don’t know what to do my friends right now are mean to other people and are saying that they can’t hang out with us and I don’t want to be apart of a mean group of people but I want to stay with my friends what do I do find knew friends or stay true to my other friends