February 8, 2020 I DON’T HAVE A CRUSH Hey Brandon, All of my friends have crushes except me. Sometimes I wonder if something’s wrong with me. The other thing is, I don’t really consider any of the guys at our school crush worthy. What should I do? Cruddy Case Of Crush-o-phobia What’s Up Cruddy Case Of Crush-o-phobia, First of all, there’s nothing wrong with you. And there’s nothing wrong with not having a crush. Everyone is different. We all like different things. Some people fall hard and crush on the same person for years. Some people have a new crush every week. Some people never have crushes at all. It sounds like you have high standards. You know what you’d like in a crush. And that’s good. Because you know what? Having a crush is stressful. I mean, don’t get me wrong. It’s also a lot of fun. But there are a LOT of crazy feelings involved in having a crush. That person should be WORTH the energy you put into thinking about them. If there’s no one at school or anywhere else who is worth that right now, it’s not something to stress out about. Honestly, that just means more time and energy for your own thing. Believe me, there will be PLENTY of time for crushes. You might feel left out, though. I can totally get that. If your friends spend a lot of time talking about their crushes and you can’t relate, that might feel awkward. But I think you can listen, support them and get excited when things happen for them, even if it’s not happening for you. And hopefully they support you and celebrate you when it comes to your non-crush stuff. You might also consider the fact that some of your friends are probably more into their crushes than others. Since you feel pressure to have a crush, others probably do too. So I’m not saying they’re lying, but I’m almost positive some of them have claimed a crush because they think they’re supposed to and not because of fluttery feelings and sweaty palms whenever that person is around. So, my point is that you’re not alone. You’re just being true to yourself. I think that’s awesome! Hey readers, are you crushing on somebody right now, or are you crush-free like Cruddy Case Of Crush-o-phobia? What do you think makes a good crush? Tell us in the comments.
Crushed by Crush says February 29, 2020 at 7:35 am Hmmph. I have a crush, but he is my friend and he told me he likes one of my friends… Ugh. What to do?
DorkyPineapple says February 29, 2020 at 1:51 am I don’t have crush either so I’m waiting for the rest of the year and move on to middle School to meet new guys
cat crazy cat lady says February 28, 2020 at 11:55 pm I have had the same crush for about 3 years now and I am wondering if that’s weird?
Nocrushesforme!! says February 28, 2020 at 10:41 am I don’t have a crush at ALL! I understand you think something is wrong, but no! Nothing is wrong! You don’t have to deal with fainting, intense blushing, stomach lurches and all that stuff! I really think that because you don’t have a crush, you get to do all the stuff you like with your friends! Good job girl!
theKAKSmeow says February 28, 2020 at 9:27 am OMG!!!!! I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!!!!!!!!! I don’t have a crush ether, but one of my friends has 3 crushes, my other friend has one crush, and two of my friends have boy friends! Whenever they ask me about my crush, I say I don’t have one, and I think middle school is to young for boy drama, thy just role their eyes and say “I don’t believe you, everyone has a crush!” This advice helped me to!
xxjustlikeyoulikemexx says February 28, 2020 at 6:06 am Omg I can relate . My friends went from being crush-crazed for a week to being all ew gross i don’t have a crush again and being a tween sucks but you’ll get through it !!!! Xoxo , xxjustlikeyoulikemexx
Moving says February 27, 2020 at 3:32 pm In my BF I see humor, kindness, and smarts. My BF is so sweet and got 100 on the state test. Even though my BF is my exes BFF, I know I can trust him. You GO girl!
Super says February 27, 2020 at 12:26 pm I have a huge crush on a boy in my class. He makes me feel nervous and I always wonder if he likes me too. If you don’t have a crush then good for you!
Ashley says February 27, 2020 at 3:37 am I LOVE ALL THE BOOKS! I LOVE THE FIRST BOOK TOO IT IS LIKE ME,A REALLY CRUDDY LIFE!
in love !!!! says February 26, 2020 at 6:11 pm I have a BIG crush right now (well technically I have been crushing on him since pre-k)