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February 5, 2020

My Crush Likes Me Back But…!

Hi Nikki! 

I have a crush on this CCP boy. And guess what?! He’s actually crushing on ME, too! Awesome, right?!! The only thing is he wants to be better than I am at everything. Like, he thinks I’m weak and that he has to stand up for me even when I can do it myself. Plus he even seems to have a problem with the fact that I get the best scores on all our tests and stuff. What’s up with this guy?!

Please give me your best advice, Nikki!

Crushed By Crush

Hi Crushed By Crush,

Okay, when I first started reading your letter I was super excited! You have a crush! He likes you back! SQUEEEEE!!!! You’re living the dream 😀 !!

But then I got to the next part. He wants to be better than you and doesn’t let you stand up for yourself. I mean…the whole hero thing can seem a little swoony at first, but you’re a strong girl and you know it. It’s NOT good that he doesn’t respect that. I mean, c’mon! It’s 2020, dude! 

And then the last part? He has a problem with your awesome brain?!! 

Oh HECK no!! 🙁 !!

I guess my main question is…do you really think he’s a good crush? I mean, I assume he’s cute and you said he’s a CCP. Maybe he’s funny or charming. But is that enough if he doesn’t let you do your thing without being all “HEY YOU’RE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE BETTER THAN ME AT ANYTHING!!” about it? 

The truth is, I don’t think so! 🙁

There’s a chance he’s a good guy who just needs to be enlightened. But it’s really not your responsibility to teach him how to respect girls.

I think the best thing you can do is continue to be your awesome, strong, and high-achieving self. Don’t ever change that for ANY crush! If he’s a good guy, he’ll see how awesome you are and realize that it makes you even cooler.

And if he’s doesn’t see that? Well girlfriend, I’d say it’ time to MOVE ON and find a new crush! 

What do you guys think? Have you ever had a crush or friend who got upset whenever you did something awesome? Any advice for Crushed By Crush?

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  1. Kate says

    February 19, 2020 at 7:34 pm

    Love you Nikki

  2. DorkCCP says

    February 19, 2020 at 6:58 pm

    This is so terrible!!! I would just go straight up to him and ask if he could please leave you alone and that even though you have feelings for him if he could back off and give you a little space!! Girl you don’t deserve this but I don’t think he means to be rude!! Good luck hon! 🙂

  3. PandaNikki says

    February 19, 2020 at 4:32 pm

    Same happened, In first grade I had a crush on this boy, it was lunch time and we were playing ‘ truth or dare ‘ so some one asked me truth or dare. If course I was a total CHICKEN and said truth, but I didn’t what was coming. One of my friends asked ” Who is your crush” and I told her how name and then another boy heard us and went to my crush and said ” she likes you! ” I went straight under the lunch table! After that , I have my dream up and stopped crushing on him.

    I moved to another school in the summer, and now I have another crush.

    Should I keep it a secret and let him not know I exist or do I tell my friends and tell him how I feel?

  4. #1dorkyfan! says

    February 19, 2020 at 11:44 am

    He’s just jealous! Don’t let that get in your way of life, or your smart brain!

  5. dork forever baby!!! says

    February 18, 2020 at 11:39 pm

    he is sooooooooooooooo not worth it

  6. Ali CCP says

    February 18, 2020 at 6:39 pm

    Yea you DON’T want to be in that. Like, a girl I know is mentally abusive to her crush

  7. Little Anime Nugget says

    February 18, 2020 at 6:34 pm

    i used to have a crush on a boy that liked me back and he was awesome! but… i moved and i miss him really bad, now im at new school and i miss everybody from my old school. at least i kinda made friends with a few people… and its boring not having a crush ;-; a bad boy at this school has a crush on me so its kinda entertaining when he does weird stuff to impress me. XD

  8. SushiLuvr says

    February 18, 2020 at 6:24 pm

    I have a crush too and even though I’m only in a lower grade so much trouble!!!!

  9. Ali CCP says

    February 18, 2020 at 5:30 pm

    Wow. He’s jealous stop liking him and things will hopefully go back to normal. NEVER MIND DON’T LISTEN TO ME IF YOU DON’T WANT TO

  10. From wondering crush says

    February 18, 2020 at 4:40 pm

    Dear Brandon. There a new boy in my class that I like but he doesn’t know that. He’s funny and a good friend but I kinda want to be than that. The thing is that I don’t know how to tell him.

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