May 21, 2020 HOW DO I MAKE UP WITH MY SISTER? Hi Nikki, My sister and I got into this HUGE fight and now she’s giving me the cold shoulder. I want to make up. The thing is, I don’t really have anything to be sorry about. I’m sure I did something but my sister was kinda the one who started it! I just kept my cool and she still got mad. What should I do to make up? Sorta Sorry Sister Hi Sorta Sorry Sister, OOF, it sounds like your sister knows how to hold a grudge. Truth be told, sometimes I do too. 😀 The thing is, if you had a fight, there were two of you in that ring throwing punches. (I mean, not literally. I hope!) It’s impossible for one person to fight alone. Like, your sister could have just started screaming at you out of nowhere about something, but you call it a fight, so there were two sides. Now, this doesn’t mean you were both equally wrong. There are always two sides to every story, but sometimes one of them is right. I’m sure you think that’s you. 😀 Still, I’m afraid you said or did something that contributed to the fight. We all have been there! You’re the one who wants to make up, which is SUPER cool and mature of you, by the way! So if you really DO want to make up, it might be on you to put yourself out there a little bit. Apologize for whatever you can sincerely apologize for. And take care not to start the fight back up with a “you started it” or something. And if SHE starts the argument again, back straight on out of there, saying, “I don’t want to fight with you anymore.” The other thing is, she might just need time. If she’s a champion grudge-keeper, it might not matter what you say. She might just have to get over it in her own time. If you give her time and space, it might go more smoothly if she chills out on her own. Just act normal and friendly, so she knows that you’re there when she’s ready to stop being mad. Also, maybe there’ll be a specific conversation where you make up. But maybe not. Sometimes talking about arguments is healthy, but sometimes it just brings up the bad feelings again. It might be that you just need to let it go and after some time, things can get back to normal again. They will eventually. She can’t stay mad forever. How do you make up after arguments with family or friends? Do you need a lot of time to simmer down? Tell us in the comments!
So Bendy says June 3, 2020 at 11:39 am Sounds like me and my sister. But fighting with my sister is a part of my day
I LOVE DORK DIARIES says June 3, 2020 at 9:54 am mabye you should talk it out w/ her! so be like ” I’m sorry, if your sorry, can we please be friends agian?” BTW, i love dork diaries!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
purple kitty elsa says June 3, 2020 at 9:52 am give her a note saying your sorry. it always helps with me and my twin!
Similar sorry girl says June 3, 2020 at 9:40 am My problem is very similar to this one. Hopefully you two don’t get into a another fight.
Branikki says June 3, 2020 at 6:58 am I have a sibling of my own and he gets pretty annoying. When he just yells at me for no reason, it’s kind of odd, but then I talk about something he likes or try to make him feel better. This might not work for you, but if you want to, try it out!
A random itsFunneh fan says June 3, 2020 at 4:37 am Hi nikki my brother has always been fighting me and i don’t know what to do he keeps making it so dang hard to apologise which brings the fighting longer,could you please give me some advise i really REALLY REALLY WANNA APOLOGISE yours sincerely
Adorkable Ms.know it all says June 3, 2020 at 3:35 am Don’t worry, we are on the same team. I have a sister and almost every time we are in a fight… But then two seconds later, we are playing together again like nothing happened. I think you should go to her when she is in a good mood and try to apologize for the thing that you did (if you did it) and tell her you want to end this argument and I’m sure she is going to accept (because she IS your sister). If she says no then try being nice to her like doing favors I’m sure she will forget about the argument in a few days. Hope this was helpful♥️ -Adorkable Ms.know it all
Animal Jam Dork says June 2, 2020 at 7:43 pm Hey Sorta Sorry Sister, I totally get ya, even tho I dont hv my OWN SIBLING. My friends are siblings and one is in third grade and one in first, but the thing is, whenever I go to their house or we meet up somewhere, they start arguing and they both end up in tears and we can’t play!!
Bestieunicorn says June 2, 2020 at 6:18 pm Hi nikiki I have a crush but doesn’t like me what should I do
my first time says June 2, 2020 at 6:14 pm okay this is good because i get in fights with my sister a lot, so this helps!
Little_Skittles says June 2, 2020 at 5:24 pm I’m glad we all have something to share to Nikki and how we need to handle them.I’m sure you and your sister are OK now!
CrushControl3000 says June 2, 2020 at 2:55 pm You guys are family. You’ll get over it. Don’t worry too much until then? Remember: There are always two sides to a fight. And I am always in the middle (usually.)
i want a dog says June 2, 2020 at 12:49 pm maybe you should ask your parents or sisters friends 4 help
Anonymous says June 2, 2020 at 11:12 am I know it can be hard, and if it’s hard to talk and you still don’t want to say you were wrong, here’s some advice: 1. Be careful of what you say, it can end up worse if you say something a tiny bit hurtful.
descendant and dork diary girl says June 2, 2020 at 9:42 am if your sister has crush on a guy then see if you can get them on a date love from a boy always sorts problems then she we be very thankfull