January 14, 2021 Family Night Game Over! Hi guys! Today we have a special letter from Max Crumbly! In case you didn’t know, he is Brandon’s best bud. He’s asking for advice about the headache of being stuck with his family due to the pandemic. I’m sure that many of us have this same exact problem! Okay, so here is his letter… What’s Up Nikki,My family is big on having weekly game nights so that we can be together, bond, laugh and all that stuff. We do everything from board games to trivia to video games. But lately, everyone (including me!) is getting really impatient, competitive and a little bit mean about who’s winning. How can we get back to having fun?!Max Crumbly, aka “Grumpy Grumbling Gamer” Hi Grumpy Grumbling Gamer, You know that phrase, “Distance makes the heart grow fonder?” Yeah, I think it’s probably true, because there hasn’t been much distance between the family members in my house lately, and my feelings for Miss Penelope (my sister’s hand puppet) have definitely NOT grown fonder! ☹ Example: Brianna keeps saying that she and Miss Penelope want another sleepover with me in my super comfy bed, but the last time I agreed to THAT ridiculousness, I woke up on the floor (Brianna claimed that Miss Penelope kicked me off the mattress. . . I have my doubts). Seriously, I definitely get what you’re going through—I mean, it’s not easy in a normal year to hang out with my family on a game night. Picture this: One Monopoly BoardOne Hand Puppet (aka, Miss Penelope) wearing the Hat game piece while eating three other game pieces.One Dad reading the rules while wearing a t-shirt saying “This RoachMaster Rules!”One Mom trying to stop our dog Daisy (and my sister Brianna) from eating too many snacks.One Sister stealing fake paper money because she’s trying to bribe the tooth fairy into never visiting anyone again (long story).One ME watching the clock and wondering when I can call my friends and write about all this madness in my diary. You got all that? Okay, now whip it all up and let it bake for about an hour. You want to know the results? Here’s what usually comes out of the family game oven: One Tantrum (most often from Dad or Miss Penelope)One Wildly-Contested Game (with rules that change ALL the time)One Tired Family (who all declare themselves winners by eating dessert) So yes, our game nights are always a little bit messy. But fast-forward to game nights happening more and more often, like they have this year for me and you… Well yeah, that was always bound to blow up like a last-minute, badly-researched, extra-hot-sauce-infused science fair volcano, right?!?! We’ve all been kinda cooped up in our houses more than normal lately, and we’ve been spending lots of extra time with our family, which is AWESOME in some ways and AWFUL in others. Bottom line: it’s normal to have a few stingy sparks flying around on game night. Here’s my advice: Let one family member choose a game for the evening. Respect the choice and play that family member’s game! Rotate the games so that everyone gets to play something that they enjoy now and then.Create a jar of joke breaks. If things get heated, make your Uncle Oscar (or whoever) reach into a jar and tell a pre-written joke! It sounds silly, but so does having your Uncle Oscar tell silly jokes. It’ll break up the tension!Give out strips of paper to everyone at the beginning of the game that say “My Bad!” If somebody’s rude (and others call them out on it), they have to give out a “My Bad!” strip that entitles everyone else to ask for a favor.Rather than having a Game Night, have each family member suggest a different activity that would still encourage togetherness—like having a Zoom meeting with someone you all know, or cooking something together, or watching a movie and doing a book club thing—the possibilities are endless! Okay, readers, now it’s YOUR turn—is spending extra time with your family driving you KA-RAY-ZEE? Do you have any advice for our friend, Max Crumbly?
DorkDiaries Megafan says January 15, 2021 at 3:17 pm I hate losing at board games and stuff Reply to this comment
Adventure Girl says January 15, 2021 at 1:09 pm Im super competitive. Someone in my clqss called my the most competitive person they know Reply to this comment
winter world says January 15, 2021 at 12:34 pm Hi Nikki make sure max sees this if hes having family troubles he should just do a bit of a challenge i made up so everyone goes into their rooms for 24 hours you can gather up food and water and whatever is in your room but you have to be alone in your room with no one then you will realize how much you need each other. Reply to this comment
#Imma Girl says January 15, 2021 at 12:28 pm Interesting…. yeah I am also competitive. Trust me. Sometimes just get used to it… Reply to this comment
dorky says January 15, 2021 at 12:25 pm ikr my family’s we can be competitive and i hate losing and i have to let my brothers cheat Reply to this comment
Carmen Sandiego says January 15, 2021 at 11:30 am If you get rid of your tantrum throwing little brother, (and maybe get your sister to be a little more open to things!) you might be surprised at how quickly you feel better! I should know. I’ve got to little sisters aka the monsters of the house at home so I know how you feel. (But I’m the oldest. Trust me, it’s not at all what it’s cracked up to be.) Reply to this comment
Anonymous says January 15, 2021 at 2:44 pm ( btw i love Carmen Sandiego, I’m so excited to watch the new season that came out today! )
ILUVNIKKI says January 15, 2021 at 11:08 am This COVID is AWUFULLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!! My family is DRIVING ME KA-RAY-ZEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!! Reply to this comment
Dork Vader says January 15, 2021 at 10:44 am It is also driving me crazy, but not that much! Reply to this comment
Kitty pop73 says January 15, 2021 at 10:42 am Me and my friends played this game before and one of their bratty little sisters won and she said: “Ha Ha you loosers you didn’t win at all but I did!” You know what… SHE CHEATED!!!!!!!!!!!! Me and my friends were so angry with her. (This was before the pandemic) Reply to this comment
Big_Dorker :) says January 15, 2021 at 10:31 am Play a game that is not-so-competitive. Reply to this comment
UNICORN POWER/GIRL POWER 101 says January 15, 2021 at 10:02 am i don’t like sleeping alone in my room i hate being alone especially when i not sleepy i asked my mom if i could sleep in the guest and she said no what should i do she does not believe that i’m scared i sleep downstairs and she sleeps upstairs. Reply to this comment
Anonymous says January 15, 2021 at 8:47 am My family doesn’t spend time together often so no Reply to this comment
dork says January 15, 2021 at 8:35 am my family gets supper competive on family among us. Reply to this comment
malaila love CCP says January 15, 2021 at 8:13 am i have a lil sis she is sooooooo rude Reply to this comment
stranger things girl says January 15, 2021 at 8:00 am Hey max, It’s okay to be competitive sometimes but if you are competitive all the time it can sometimes be damaging for you and the people around you try doing some yoga or daily exercises that might put your mind into a calm and harmless place. I know how you feel I’ve been through it all but mostly worst so try yoga or exercise every once in a while trust me it works. your friend, stranger things girl. Reply to this comment
DanceSloth says January 15, 2021 at 10:10 am Hey Max! Sometimes family can get under your skin. Its annoying, we get it, been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Sometimes when that happens you have to find an alone space. That’s where you go when you need to be alone and get a break. Hope it helps!
WINTER101! says January 15, 2021 at 7:52 am Max you just have to deal with it STOP POUTING LIKE A BABY!! Reply to this comment