September 28, 2019 HOW TO IMPRESS A BUS CRUSH Hi Brandon, When I ride the bus to school every day, I sit right in front of this really nice and cute guy. I like him a lot but I don’t know how to get his attention. What’s the best way to impress my “bus crush?” Heartbroken bus-rider! Dear Heartbroken bus-rider, I can understand why it would be tough to get his attention seeing that you sit in front of him. The back of our heads are kind of boring to look at! The good news is that he really hasn’t had a chance to break your heart yet, so really, you’re “hopeful bus-rider.” The even better news is that I know a few ways you can get him to notice you. First things first, turn around! This is kind of obvious, but I’m guessing it’s not easy to do this. Since you think he’s nice and cute, odds are you’re kind of nervous and maybe even afraid to talk to him. But I have a secret to share with you: cute and nice guys can also be dorky and shy, and they really like it when nice girls, like yourself, talk to them so they don’t have a ton of pressure to start a conversation. You don’t have to say anything impressive. In fact, don’t even try to impress him. It always backfires. One time it was totally obvious that a girl was trying to impress me. But really, she just looked desperate when she said, “I have 101 designer bags. Which one should I bring on our date this weekend?” I hadn’t even asked her out! If you’re familiar with the CCP clique at our school, you can probably guess who I’m talking about. Instead of trying to look cool, or funny, or smart, or whatever, smile and talk to him like you would talk to a friend who knows and loves everything about you. This will make you seem laid back and comfortable with yourself, and that’s a lot more impressive than someone who’s trying way too hard and coming across as faker than a reality show. The next thing you could do is ask him about himself. I know this might seem like a strange way to get his attention, since really, you’ll be giving him yours. But that’s the beauty of this idea. Most people ramble on and on about themselves. (Remember that girl with the 101 designer purses? I also know her top 20 favorite lip gloss flavors, 15 hairstyles she thinks make her “eyes really pop,” and 30 girls in our school who she thinks are not cool enough to breathe the same air as she does. She comes off as desperate and mean…neither one is very impressive!) If you ask about him, he’ll know that you’re really interested in who he is as a person. Trust me, that will get his attention! My last suggestion is to not take yourself too seriously. I know girls are always trying to look perfect and do everything right, but “perfect” is really boring, and “dorky” is much more fun. If you accidentally snort when you laugh, laugh at that too, and snort again if you want! If you accidentally trip when you get on the bus, pick yourself up and say, “Good thing I’m headed to school. I obviously need to relearn walking!” The truth is, we want to do everything right too, but we mess up all the time. And nothing makes us feel better than seeing a girl who reminds us it’s okay to chill out and laugh at ourselves. I hope this helps a little!
*Cookie_Patootie* says October 17, 2019 at 3:20 am I had a crush, and i felt like i was invisible! He wasn’t interested in me. (At least i hope i didn’t) then at CHRISTMAS! He went to my house and confessed!!!! i could hardly believe it!!!
Dork of clumsiness says October 16, 2019 at 10:25 pm Hi want to leave a comment for boys who all have a crush on a girl. And I’m a girl so all of these facts are true or my opinion. {1} Get to know her and hang out A LOT. I didn’t like my crush until we hung out together a lot. Crushes that time, or at least for a girl that doesn’t like someone by they’re looks. (Note: this takes time maybe a month for the LEAST) {2} DO NOT CONFESS BY TEXT!!! Once you are very close friends go and confess. But beware, if she said she likes someone else still confess and get over it. {3}things girls like are… Tomboys (what I am): Video games Drawing (sometimes) Pokemon Bikes(or anything she can ride.) And maybe….. You!!! Girly girls: Makeup Cute items Basically anything that goes on her face or anything cute. Hope this helps y’all.
Too Cool for School says October 16, 2019 at 2:00 am Ok listen. How to impress a bus crush. So first start with something like “What’s your favorite color?,”. Soon you and your crush will have a long conversation. Good luck! Boy’s Advice.
Sad-mad-crash says October 16, 2019 at 12:33 am i like a boy and he likes me back and he always play with his friends and NOT me what do i do?
Billie Eilish says October 14, 2019 at 7:21 pm Mackenzie is over dramatic! No one picks the life they live, THE AIR YOU BREATH or the way you look!!!
gacha icecream says October 14, 2019 at 4:38 pm I dont have a crush anymore since i sorta got heartbroken by him.We were really close friends, he was really nice and smart.I was like depressed at thta time i met him and then he cheered me up i started to be more happy then the next year he changed completely he acted bad and turned really dumb when he met this other girl he turned really popular and we stoped talking at the end of the year he got expelled ive been having dreams about him ever since.This year I said im gonna stop liking anyone,Its like 3 months from when school started and 2 boys already like me and i feel bad to reject them I dont want to hurt their feelings
Annyeong dork says October 13, 2019 at 6:44 pm I feel sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad
Too Cool for School says October 16, 2019 at 2:05 am Me too. Soooo ssaaadddd IIII’MMMM aaacccctttuuuuulllllllyyyyy ccccrrrryyyyiiinnnggg!!! Hope everything ggggoes fffine.